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Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Which state are you in?

Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Which state are you in?

Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn - Which state are you in?

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The most expensive mistake in commercial real estate is not buying the wrong property. It is buying the right property from the wrong advisor.

Most people approach a commercial property decision the same way they approach buying a phone — they read reviews, compare options, and trust the person selling it to them to be broadly honest. But in real estate, the person selling it to you has a direct financial interest in the transaction closing. That is not a criticism. It is simply a structural reality that every investor needs to understand before they sign anything.

The broker's job is to close the deal. Your job is to make the right decision. These two objectives are not always aligned.

In the engagements I have worked on, the most common errors are not about location or price. They are about due diligence that was never done. Legal encumbrances that were not checked. Tenant agreements that had hidden break clauses. Yield calculations that assumed full occupancy in a building that had been 60% occupied for three years.

None of these things are secrets. They are all findable. But they require someone who is not being paid on commission to go looking for them.

Before you commit to any commercial property, run an independent evaluation. Not a second broker opinion — an independent one. Model the returns yourself, or have someone model them for you, under three scenarios: optimistic, realistic, and pessimistic. Make sure the pessimistic scenario is one you can survive.

The properties that look best on paper are often the ones that need the most scrutiny. The deal that feels urgent usually isn't. And the advisor who tells you everything is fine without checking is the most expensive person in the room.

You don't need more rest. You need rest your subconscious will actually accept.

Nicolas Ullah

Nicolas Ullah

Portfolio Manager

You don't need more rest. You need rest your subconscious will actually accept.
Nicolas Ullah

Nicolas Ullah

Portfolio Manager

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